Sometimes we need to be reminded of things we already know by someone who isn’t us.
B.O.O
It gets to a certain point that you lack interest in certain things or you’re even interested in it but the vibe isn’t there. The energy just fades. You suddenly feel like you’re not being as creative as you usually are or you’re not getting the hang of something.
There’s that point that everyone comes to that all that’s on their mind centres around:
“I can’t kill myself!”
“I’m not going to stress myself!”
“I cannot can!”
“This is a lot!”
“I’m tired!”
The truth is the matter is you’re not alone. Everybody gets to this point.
Let’s talk about the solution.
When you get to this point, just take a break. What were you expecting to hear? This is something you already know so I’m just here giving you a little nudge reminding you what you already know but refuse to do. So yeah that’s it. Take a break.
You’re writing a piece and you run out of ideas? Take a break! You’re in a situation and there seems to be no way forward? Take a break!
I know how we twist things to favour us. Let me shake a few tables and shatter the tables if possible. I’m not saying become lazy in the name of taking a break. Taking a break is taking a little time off something not you abandoning the thing totally. Procrastination is not you taking a break, it’s just you being lazy. You only take a break from something that you’ve started doing and when you’re exhausted, you rest. Don’t procrastinate up and down or give up and call it a break. You’re just deceiving yourself.
When you’re extremely tired, you go to bed and when you wake up a few hours later you feel better. When you’re hot and you take a cool shower, you feel refreshed. Yeah? That’s exactly what taking a break does to you. It refreshes you. It helps you birth better ideas.
Take a walk, go to sleep, watch a movie, dance, listen to a song, pray, talk, most importantly breathe. I think we underestimate the relief that comes with inhaling and exhaling deeply. So yeah breathe! Breathe in and breathe out.
Taking a break from things isn’t you being a coward, it is a means of caring for you.
Sometimes taking a break simply means pausing. It means you are putting something on hold. It’s not until you take a two-week break or a long vacation that you’re taking a break. Taking a break can mean pausing for a second, resting for a minute or two.
You know how we underestimate the little things that actually matter? Yeah that’s how we underestimate taking a pause. Sometimes lots of things get destroyed, friendships break, relationships end all because one person didn’t pause for just a second or the other person didn’t take a minute or two to calm down.
That argument is getting out of hand? Pause!
That person is pissing you off badly and you want to give them a piece of your mind? Pause!
That person isn’t getting your point? Pause!
Allow just a second to pass and you’ll be glad you did.
You see that split second that you hold back or refrain from speaking or reacting? That’s you taking a break and stopping things from going south.
Sometimes you have everything planned out and everything is going just fine until it suddenly isn’t going fine. What should you do? Pause.
When things aren’t going well, it’s probably because you’re stressed and you’re making the wrong decisions. If you rest or take a break when you come back to continue, you’ll realise that it’ll be easier and it’ll look just like magic because you’ll be at the top of your game.
Taking a break can lead to breakthroughs.
Russell Eric Dobda
If you don’t take a break, you will crash.
You either take a break or you break! The choice is yours.
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Have a lovely day ahead.
Nice one. Laziness will not just let me shine though. Taking a break for me marks the beginning of the end of whatever it is I’m working on🤡😭😂
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Thisss😹
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😂😂
Stop being lazy.
Shake off the laziness😂😂😂
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Na for mouth?😂
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😂😂
You can do it joor.
Think of not being lazy as you saving the world 😂😂 (it hasn’t worked for me yet, maybe it will for you)
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Aw, this is so good. These are truths that we know but don’t just want to acknowledge them. Thanks Obort. Really good piece😇
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Thank you so much💚
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Lol I Love this….I learnt how to always to take a break when things are not going well
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Exactly. Thanks for reading.
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I think this is what I need thank you
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Nice one. Laziness will not just let me shine though. Taking a break for me marks the beginning of the end of whatever it is I’m working on🤡😭😂
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I’m glad it is helpful
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I don’t even know what to say self…
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Speechless 😂
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Nice write up,you’re really hitting the nail on the head…once I decide to take a break trust me there’s no going back.
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You have to go back oo.
Take a break but don’t remain in the break. Get back to what you were doing💚💚
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Just as you’ve rightly stated, things that really matters aren’t treated as such. Thank you for ringing the bell, so resounding, that we can pay attention. Well done ma!
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I’m glad the bell is loud enough. Thank you ma💚
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Thank you so much.
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I’m glad it is helpful.
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This is exactly what I needed. Thank you for the reminder!
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Nice🙌
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Nice🙌
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Prince take a break!
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Please do.
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Just what I needed.😌 I reckon I’ll put it to test by taking one hell of a break. 😂
Really nice writeup though. I’m impressed. ❤❤❤
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Don’t remain in the break ooo😂😂😂
Thank you💚
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I’ll try not to.😌😂
My pleasure, mate.💕
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Beautifully crafted…well done Obort! Life coaching tinz!
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Pastor Matt!!! Thank you very much sir.
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As if you read my mind. Hmmm… I didn’t write much in July… but that’s just how it works mhennn… The break was needed… when I come back, I will come with full and heavy effect…
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Yesss! ! Take a break and come back with a lot of energy. I can’t wait to be wowed💚💚
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This was timely for me, exactly what I needed now. Thank you ❤️
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Thank you so much for reading and I’m glad it was helpful.
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Thanks for this..
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Hey you have been nominated for the Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award ❤ https://wp.me/pcdFu1-1m
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Thank you so much
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Its my pleasure 😁
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Great post🙆
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Thanks.
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Nice write up. Sometimes, I start writing something great and then I just lose the magic. When I try to convince myself to keep on writing, I end up destroying the work. So I realized something and came to a conclusion not to be so hard on myself. when the magic returns, I will write it, and if doesn’t… well… so be it. But magic never dies.
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The magic never dies. It may become faint but it’s still in there somewhere.
Thanks for your comment.
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Wonderful words of wisdom. Thanks for posting this.
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I’m glad you liked it.
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